Behold, children are a gift of the LORD. The fruit of the womb is a reward. (Psalm 127:3 NASB)
Children are a gift! Parenting is a true gift from God, and He gives us children to enjoy. But it is possible to fall into the trap of enduring a child’s behavior issues rather than genuinely enjoying the child as a gift from Heaven.
It brings us to a fundamental question: How do you raise children you enjoy?
We must start with the heart. The Bible tells us that everything flows from the heart. Think of it this way: Your child's heart is upstream, and anything flowing out of them is downstream, such as characteristics and behaviors.
As Christian parents, it is essential to deposit the correct teachings into our children's hearts, so they learn and develop self-control. I have come to believe that one of the most crucial elements of parenting is to embrace this truth:
The purpose of parenting is not to control the child but to teach the child self-control.
This principle becomes increasingly important in present times because whether we choose to realize it or not, every time our child scrolls through social media or launches a playlist on YouTube or Apple Music, the world teaches them lifestyle philosophies. And unfortunately, most of those philosophies are centered in darkness. It seems we are raising our children in a spiritual Babylon, similar to the culture in the Book of Daniel. As a result, when it comes to any unholy ideology that culture may be using to take our kids captive, our sons and daughters must be raised in such a way that they can respond with uncompromising attitudes like Daniel, Shadrach, Meschach, and Abendago.
What are you teaching and developing in your child? Because the most important disciple, you will ever make is your child. And… Making a disciple comes down to helping people get centered.
We as parents must be the ones to sow seeds of godliness into our children and center them in Christ so that anything transpiring around them externally will not affect what is inside of them. Because if our children are centered correctly, that which flows from their hearts will be of God, and they will have the power within them to defeat any attack the enemy forms against them!
What is your family's center? What is your child’s center? How do we evaluate our priorities to make sure we are centered correctly?
These are essential questions to answer as parents. I invite you to watch this crucial message, How to Lead Your Family Well, as I walk through the significance of centering our families in the things that matter most.
It's our responsibility to plant the correct seeds within our children's hearts and keep them centered. We are blessed with the opportunity to make our children into disciples!
“But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” (Joshua 24:15 NKJV)
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